Check value exist in array
in_array($value_to_check, $array_to_check);
Check key exist in array
array_key_exists($key_to_check, $array_to_check);
Count number of user with same DOB in DB
SELECT dob,
COUNT(dob) AS NumOccurrences
FROM members
GROUP BY dob
HAVING ( COUNT(dob) > 0 )